Don’t feel bad that your kid doesn’t like you today because you said no. Your job isn’t to be liked. Your job is to raise a decent, kind, responsible human.
– Unknown
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Now, I don’t have any children, but here are some questions I would like parents/guardians to ask themselves before denying their children something. “Do we need this, or do we want this?” “Will it matter?” “Will everyone be safe?” Now, there are some things that we SHOULD deny a child. We must not ride a bike without a helmet that fits us well, or serious head injury could occur if we fell. We must not play in the middle of the road, or we could get hit by a car. We must not steal (purposefully take other people’s things without that person’s permission). However, occasionally saying yes to that ice cream or toy likely will not matter.
However, when your child reaches a certain age (maybe around 4 or 5), start making a list of needs and a list of wants before going shopping, and show the lists to your child. Explain the difference between a need and a want. A need is something that we need in order to survive, or that we need for school, work, or an event. A want, on the other hand, is something that we would like to have, but is not needed. Basic clothes are a need, but top-notch designer clothes, and the latest fashion trends are wants. A basic cellphone is a need (once your child reaches a certain age and maturity level), but the latest smartphone is a want. Healthful food is a need, but food/take-out, restaurant foods, and junk food are wants. Write or type questions for your child to ask themselves (you can even see about having this laminated). “Do we need this in order to survive?” “Do I need this for school?” “Do my parents (or the adults I live with) need this for work?” “Do we need this for an event?” If your child asks for something that seems out of your means, instead of explaining that it’s too expensive, show your child the questions.
Also, make sure to give your child enough choices. However, make sure that the choices offered are choices that you, your child, and everyone else involved can all live with. “Do you think we should get apples or lettuce?” “Do you want peaches or carrots with your lunch today?”
“So often, children are punished for being human. Children are not allowed to have grumpy moods, bad days, disrespectful tones, or bad attitudes, yet we adults have them all the time. None of us are perfect, and we must stop holding our children to a higher standard of perfection than we can attain ourselves.”
– Rebecca Eanes
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Parents cause their kids so much hurt but don’t realize how much that pain stays & develops with them & pretty much defines who they become.
-Unknown
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What’s the happiness?” “That few minutes of conversation with Dad at night on how’s the day spent.”
-Unknown
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What keeps me happy? The smile on my parents’ face. And their trust on me that I won’t let them down. That, that saves me from all the negativity, hate, and judgments. My parents keep me going.
– Unknown
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The best advice my father gave me was, “never run for anything that demands sacrifice of your dignity because once you lose it, you won’t be able to get it back, even with a trucks full of money.”
-unknown
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People dream of having perfect relationship, friendship, and life. But I dream of only one moment where my parents look at me proudly and say, “That’s my daughter!”
-Unknown
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What’s pure? When your dad gives you What he can’t afford. What’s pure?? When your mother feeds you With her hands.
-Unknown
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